Moving to Northern Virginia: A Plain-Words Guide to Buying From a Distance
How to plan around your start date, see homes when you can't be here, and handle a home you've left behind, one step at a time.

You Can't Be Everywhere at Once
You may be starting a new job, packing up one life and looking for a home in a place you don't know yet. This guide puts the steps in order, in plain words, so you can do this from wherever you are.
It comes from Mike and Claudia Webb of The Mike Webb Team, with RE/MAX Allegiance. We have more than 34 years in real estate, and we work across Northern Virginia, Washington, DC and Maryland.
This guide is general information, not legal or tax advice. A Virginia attorney and a CPA can tell you what applies to you.
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Step 1: Work Back From Your Date
Write down the date that matters most: your job start, your lease end, or the day you have to be here. Then plan backward from it.
Plan on about one to three months to find the right home, and maybe longer, since there's more to choose from now. After that comes the time from contract to settlement, which your contract sets. Your lender can tell you how long the loan will take.
Step 2: Get Preapproved Before You Look
A preapproval letter says a lender is tentatively willing to lend you a set amount. It isn't a guaranteed loan. It may expire, often in 30 to 60 days, so time it to your search. It also doesn't commit you to that lender.
Count the whole monthly cost: the loan payment, real estate taxes, insurance and any condo or HOA fee.
Step 3: Sign a Buyer Agreement Before You Tour
This may be different from what you've done elsewhere. Virginia law requires a written agreement before an agent shows you homes. The national guide for consumers says that covers tours in person and virtual tours too, so we sign it before a video tour as well.
The agreement must state the fee, how and when it's paid, the services you get and an end date. If no end date is written in, it ends after 90 days. Pay is negotiable and not set by law. We go over it with you, line by line.
Step 4: See Homes From Far Away
When you can't be here, we tour homes for you on FaceTime. We walk through each room and show you what photos leave out. When you can visit, we show you around in person.
Arlington can have detached houses, duplexes, townhomes, condos and high-rises a short distance apart, so location questions matter as much as the type of home:
- How would you get to work, and how long does it take at the hours you'd travel?
- How close is the nearest Metro station, if you'd use one? Not every home is near a station.
- What parking do you need, and is it included?
- How far is the home from the places you go every week?
Be ready when the right home appears. In Bright MLS's Home Demand Index for October 2026, based on September activity, buyer demand in Arlington was rated High (150), second of all counties and cities in the Washington-area report. The whole region was rated Slow (87). Demand can change month to month.
Step 5: Check the Home Before You Commit
Virginia's disclosure statement tells buyers the owner makes no promises about the home's condition. It advises buyers to do their own checking, including a home inspection and a property survey. Don't skip this because you're far away. You can ask to join the inspection by phone or video.
Buying into a condo or HOA? You get a resale certificate with the rules, the budget and the fees. Virginia law gives you time to cancel after you receive it: whatever your contract says, or three days if it doesn't say.
Step 6: Close and Settle In
Before closing.
- Ask your settlement company early what you can sign from a distance.
- By law, you must get your Closing Disclosure at least three business days before closing.
- Before you wire money, call to confirm the instructions using a number you saved earlier. Never follow instructions in an email. Scammers aim at closing money.
After you move.
- The Virginia DMV gives new residents 60 days to get a Virginia license, and 30 days to title and register a vehicle.
- In Arlington, you also register for a personal property tax account with the Commissioner of Revenue within 60 days. Other counties have their own rules.
Moving costs. The IRS moving expense deduction is for active-duty Armed Forces members moving under orders, and certain intelligence community employees. Ask a CPA about your move, and about any money your employer pays toward it.
Step 7: If You Still Own a Home You're Leaving
If that home is in the area we serve, we can handle the sale while you're gone.
Getting it ready. Every seller who lists with us gets The White Glove Home Sale Method at no additional cost, whatever the price or type of home. It covers painting and repairs, physical staging, deep cleaning, carpet and window cleaning, caulking, power washing, landscaping, removing unwanted items and furniture, and taking donations to the charity you choose. We keep you updated from start to finish.
Bigger projects. If the home needs new flooring, a new kitchen or other big-ticket work, ask us about Concierge Services: renovate now, pay at closing.
As it is. Sometimes that's the right choice, especially when you're far away. We can show you what the home could sell for prepared and what it might sell for as it is, and you decide. Either way, we list it, market it and handle the sale.
Three things to check.
- Insurance. Tell your insurance company if the home is empty, because some policies have rules for vacant homes.
- Taxes. The IRS home sale exclusion, up to $250,000, or up to $500,000 on a joint return, generally needs 24 months of owning and living in the home within the 5 years before the sale. That 5-year window keeps moving after you leave, so ask a CPA how long you have. A partial exclusion can apply if you took a new job at least 50 miles farther from the home than your old job. Special rules can apply to some service members.
- Virginia paperwork. If you live out of state when you sell a Virginia home, Virginia Tax has a nonresident owner form (R-5), or an exemption form (R-5E) if the sale is exempt from income tax. Your settlement company can tell you which applies.
When You're Ready to Talk
Tell us your date, what you're looking for and what you know about the area so far. We'll help you build a plan. Nothing happens without your say.
Have a question, even an early one? Call or text us at 703-350-3884. If you're moving somewhere we are not licensed, we can connect you with a trusted agent there.
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